[Style and Beauty] New Year, New Goals

November 20, 2023
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By Heather Mechler-Fickes

I can’t believe another year is almost behind us! It feels like this year went by faster than ever.
I always look at the new year as a clean slate. My birthday is in the beginning of January, so I always feel like it’s a fresh start. I like to think I’m one year wiser, and I’m always optimistic that it will be my best year yet!

I used to make resolutions and write them in a notebook. I felt it was a great way to set a strategy in motion. I set up a plan to accomplish my goals and found it rewarding when they were met. Of course, some were short-lived and never amounted to much.

This New Year some of my resolutions aren’t necessarily to achieve anything. I guess I’m approaching 2024 with a different mindset.

This year, I want to be more present…more engaged in the moment and not focused on my phone and social media. If I am out with my family and spending time with my kids, I’m going to make a point to put my phone away. I don’t need to be on social media or checking my email all the time. Simply put, I want to be in the moment… 100%… and give my children my attention instead of being preoccupied with other less important stuff.

This past year was a real eye opener. My oldest child graduated from high school and a few months later left for the Navy. If I am lucky, I will see her during the holidays. More and more, I realize time goes by so fast and moments with children should be cherished.

I also want to be more thankful and conscious about the great things in my life, rather than going down the rabbit hole about what has gone wrong or what I think needs to be improved. Some things are just fine the way they are and I want to focus on what is positive.

I want to appreciate good health – for myself and my family – and I need to be grateful for the wonderful friends I have in my life. I want to live each day doing what I love to do and use the talents that I have been given to the best of my ability.

In 2024, if I remember all that I have to be thankful for – instead of all the stuff I could be unhappy about – it will be the best year yet. Happy New Year and blessings to all of my readers.


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By Heather Mechler-Fickes

I can’t believe another year is almost behind us! It feels like this year went by faster than ever.
I always look at the new year as a clean slate. My birthday is in the beginning of January, so I always feel like it’s a fresh start. I like to think I’m one year wiser, and I’m always optimistic that it will be my best year yet!

I used to make resolutions and write them in a notebook. I felt it was a great way to set a strategy in motion. I set up a plan to accomplish my goals and found it rewarding when they were met. Of course, some were short-lived and never amounted to much.

This New Year some of my resolutions aren’t necessarily to achieve anything. I guess I’m approaching 2024 with a different mindset.

This year, I want to be more present…more engaged in the moment and not focused on my phone and social media. If I am out with my family and spending time with my kids, I’m going to make a point to put my phone away. I don’t need to be on social media or checking my email all the time. Simply put, I want to be in the moment… 100%… and give my children my attention instead of being preoccupied with other less important stuff.

This past year was a real eye opener. My oldest child graduated from high school and a few months later left for the Navy. If I am lucky, I will see her during the holidays. More and more, I realize time goes by so fast and moments with children should be cherished.

I also want to be more thankful and conscious about the great things in my life, rather than going down the rabbit hole about what has gone wrong or what I think needs to be improved. Some things are just fine the way they are and I want to focus on what is positive.

I want to appreciate good health – for myself and my family – and I need to be grateful for the wonderful friends I have in my life. I want to live each day doing what I love to do and use the talents that I have been given to the best of my ability.

In 2024, if I remember all that I have to be thankful for – instead of all the stuff I could be unhappy about – it will be the best year yet. Happy New Year and blessings to all of my readers.


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