Paul Stefan Foundation Turns Personal Tragedy Into Lifeline for Mothers in Need

November 26, 2025
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Most nonprofit organizations grow from a vision held by their founders, but few begin from circumstances as personal as the Paul Stefan Foundation in Orange, Virginia.

In 2005, Randy and Evelyn James were celebrating the upcoming arrival of their sixth child when they learned that their unborn baby suffered from a rare and often fatal condition known as diaphragmatic hernia. The disorder creates a hole in the diaphragm that allows internal organs to protrude into the chest cavity, preventing the lungs from developing properly. Doctors suggested terminating the pregnancy, given the likelihood that the baby would not survive long after delivery.

The Jameses, following the recommendation of Catholic priest Father Stefan Starzynski, decided to continue the pregnancy supported by prayer for a healthy delivery. Despite the heroic efforts of the medical team, baby Paul lived only 41 minutes after birth.

As the family grieved their loss, they learned that a friend of Father Stefan had been praying for a home for unwed mothers. The idea resonated deeply with them, and they began planning what would become the Paul Stefan Foundation, named in honor of their son. In a recent conversation, Randy James told The Breeze, “Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care.”

After establishing the foundation, they secured a lease on a property and building in Orange for one dollar per year through a pipeline company that had made similar arrangements elsewhere in the country.

The Paul Stefan Home opened its doors in 2006 and has since served as many as twenty young women and their children at a time, with no set limit on how long residents may stay before or after delivery.

Since its opening, the home has supported more than 150 expectant mothers. Major medical needs, including delivery and postnatal care, are covered through Medicaid. During their stay, residents are encouraged to participate in programs designed to help them build stable, productive lives. “Our mission from the start has been saving babies, one mom at a time,” James said.

While the foundation does not provide walk-in services, it responds to community requests for essential items such as diapers and baby food.

Funding comes from a mix of individual donations and support from roughly thirty partner churches. Staffing consists of Director Evelyn James, Business Manager Randy James, and an administrator, supported by up to fifty volunteers who assist with everything from facility maintenance to licensed nursing and physician care.

Long-term, the foundation hopes to establish additional locations in several states. While no new sites have yet opened, efforts in Columbus and Cincinnati, Ohio, are the most active.

People of faith often say that seemingly unanswered prayers can lead to greater blessings that are not immediately visible. The tragic loss of little Paul, and the powerful purpose that grew from it, is one such blessing.


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Most nonprofit organizations grow from a vision held by their founders, but few begin from circumstances as personal as the Paul Stefan Foundation in Orange, Virginia.

In 2005, Randy and Evelyn James were celebrating the upcoming arrival of their sixth child when they learned that their unborn baby suffered from a rare and often fatal condition known as diaphragmatic hernia. The disorder creates a hole in the diaphragm that allows internal organs to protrude into the chest cavity, preventing the lungs from developing properly. Doctors suggested terminating the pregnancy, given the likelihood that the baby would not survive long after delivery.

The Jameses, following the recommendation of Catholic priest Father Stefan Starzynski, decided to continue the pregnancy supported by prayer for a healthy delivery. Despite the heroic efforts of the medical team, baby Paul lived only 41 minutes after birth.

As the family grieved their loss, they learned that a friend of Father Stefan had been praying for a home for unwed mothers. The idea resonated deeply with them, and they began planning what would become the Paul Stefan Foundation, named in honor of their son. In a recent conversation, Randy James told The Breeze, “Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care.”

After establishing the foundation, they secured a lease on a property and building in Orange for one dollar per year through a pipeline company that had made similar arrangements elsewhere in the country.

The Paul Stefan Home opened its doors in 2006 and has since served as many as twenty young women and their children at a time, with no set limit on how long residents may stay before or after delivery.

Since its opening, the home has supported more than 150 expectant mothers. Major medical needs, including delivery and postnatal care, are covered through Medicaid. During their stay, residents are encouraged to participate in programs designed to help them build stable, productive lives. “Our mission from the start has been saving babies, one mom at a time,” James said.

While the foundation does not provide walk-in services, it responds to community requests for essential items such as diapers and baby food.

Funding comes from a mix of individual donations and support from roughly thirty partner churches. Staffing consists of Director Evelyn James, Business Manager Randy James, and an administrator, supported by up to fifty volunteers who assist with everything from facility maintenance to licensed nursing and physician care.

Long-term, the foundation hopes to establish additional locations in several states. While no new sites have yet opened, efforts in Columbus and Cincinnati, Ohio, are the most active.

People of faith often say that seemingly unanswered prayers can lead to greater blessings that are not immediately visible. The tragic loss of little Paul, and the powerful purpose that grew from it, is one such blessing.


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